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Only Child gets those life irritations out of the way

Only child in her home

Only child in her home

Sometimes just listing the 10 or 12 things that irritate you the most can help you get going into what to focus on (or not) in 2017. As I often do, I took this process backwards – did my focus and goals first. But I do have a category box for What I don’t like doing/What I don’t need to do.

So, loosely based on that,  (or some of the flip side of my goals) and just what I’ve observed in the world the past year, here in no particular order is my dirty dozen:

  1. Friends who phone and don’t leave a message. How am I supposed to know they called when I was out or otherwise not available?
  2. Telemarketers and the like who leave a voice mail message.
  3. Rain in the winter – heavy or otherwise and heavy rain, heavy winds any other time as well.
  4. Winter
  5. Unforeseeable house and property problems such as water getting in the basement from no. 3 above or for any reason.
  6. Consumer service and utility screw-ups.
  7. Family, friends and yes, me too, getting sick, especially with something serious.
  8. Public transit problems.
  9. Leaders of countries who are dictators (that’s the leaders, not the country here).
  10. Rude pushy people.
  11. Not getting enough sleep.
  12. Going crazy trying to manage my time.

That’s the tip of the iceberg. But I do love many things like gardening, writing and reading. Another blog post will go into some of that.

What are your pet peeves – what irritates you a lot?

May your 2017 be happier, brighter and more focused than 2016.

Good riddance to 2016.

Cheers.

Sharon

Only Child Writes

 

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Flash flood rainfalls cause havoc in Toronto

Front of Only Child's House

Front of Only Child’s House

Toronto finally got rain last week and depending where in Toronto you live, that’s when you got it. My son and his girlfriend got the big rainfall on Sunday July 24 overnight. When they woke up Monday  morning they found rain pelting down from their ceiling – on the second floor of the house they live in. There is one floor above them. Their landlord fixed it – it was a pipe going through the ceiling.

My situation is a bit more complicated. While I do believe that God controls the weather and also that climate change has a lot to do with the extreme weather we are getting worldwide, I have an added factor – NIGEL APPLEWAITE – and I don’t mean the Hamilton  football player  who has an “h” in his last name, although it is sometimes misspelled without the “h” . I don’t know this fellow, don’t have a beef with him, so I do not mean him here. I wish this Nigel Applewhaite well.

I am referring  to Nigel Applewaite who supposedly fixed the water getting in my  basement through cracks by waterproofing it on the outside in the spring of 2011. It worked until late spring 2013 when water started coming in again in the laundry room and the rec room. Of course I called Nigel right away. He came over twice but would not take responsibility. He kept saying it could be the drains and to get them checked which I did. The City of Toronto supervisors checked it twice and the drains were fine – no water back up here and no blockages here. Nigel came back and made a half-ass attempt to find the cracks he had missed (He didn’t dig down as far as the weeping tiles like he should have and this “should have” I only found out from other people after the fact). Nigel put the hose on full throttle against one area of the wall and said to leave it for a few hours and he would have to check it like this over all areas. Then he left and never came back.

I wasn’t going to get anything from him that way and because the area is so small, other bigger contractors who do this work can’t get their heavy equipment in – not that I want that to happen with my perennial garden in front. They also don’t dig by hand. And I don’t have the money to pay for this either. Because Nigel is not a BBB member and I don’t have the time or money to sue him, I have made it my business to make sure everybody knows that he does shoddy work and to never hire him to water proof their basements. In particular, if I find out someone is needing their basement waterproofed I tell them “Don’t hire Nigel Applewaite because…” And I tell them my story.

Nigel Applewaite has no online presence – yet. I’m going to make sure he gets one though. People need to be aware of those so-called professionals who mess up any kind of home repairs. It is our homes we are dealing with.

Now, just wait until I go after the very incompetent handyman I had (the one who took three visits to get the sink drain working right) a few years ago;

I also like to praise the repair people who do a good job. So, although I’ve mentioned him by first name only, here is the name of the current fellow (since early 2014) I have hired for electrical, plumbing, painting and other repair jobs)  – Mike Ouillette  – don’t k now if he has an online presence, but he is located in the Toronto, Ontario area. He does good work and his fees are not cheap but not expensive either.

As for the flooding this time round on July 27 evening  – just a bit in the laundry room. But I still had to get two neighbours to help me move the washer, dryer and freezer so I could wipe up what was actually just damp – no puddles, probably partly because I have towels, mats and long foam sticks along the walls in the laundry room and the rec room. Yes, folks, that’s how I “decorate” the floor of my rec room, thanks to NIGEL APPLEWAITE.

Cheers.

Sharon

Only Child Writes

As a P.S. here, I have received some of the money that was owed me as mentioned in last week’s post. Still waiting for more government money and the rest of the client’s fee payment.

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Only Child in scary storm watch

Winter storms now constant worry

Winter storms now constant worry

I’m doing this week’s post early (but setting it to go live the usual late Tuesday morning). Why? We’re in winter storm watch in southern, southwestern and southeastern Ontario from suppertime. Depending on where you live it could include snow mixed with ice pellets, freezing rain and then transitioning early morning to just rain for light rain Tuesday. High easterly winds coming with all this until 11 a.m. or so on Tuesday. Maybe power outages but hopefully not.

This week’s post was supposed to be my year-end tally of the good and bad that have happened in my corner of the world. That will have to wait until next week’s post. If I posted this week the bad would outnumber the good by a lot. May still outnumber the good, but maybe not so much as this week. Who knows? We live in a scary horrible world where no place is safe – and I don’t mean only the weather

One of my close friends is very sick with cancer. She was rushed to the hospital yesterday. Her son isn’t well either, so her husband is doing everything. For privacy’s sake I’m not naming them or giving any more details. Just saying they are among the friends who have helped me a lot and I am trying to help them where possible.

I am also trying to reach my son and his girlfriend. They were here Christmas Day and evening and we had a lovely visit, chatting and eating Christmas dinner. They brought the cooked ham (I’m allergic to turkey) and Martin did a few quick odd jobs around the house. Martin and Juni (who is a graphic designer) designed the background colours for my new website in the works. I’m working on content, but the three of us sat at my desktop computer (with Martin doing actual computer stuff) to sort out content layout and even content and where it should go.

Boxing Day early morning they left early for the Ottawa Valley area in eastern Ontario. Yesterday that area got hit with hours of freezing rain. I have emailed but no response so don’t know what their situation is. They are staying at the home of Juni’s aunt and uncle. I’m going to try phoning my son’s cell but who knows if there is cell reception there or what.

The three of us did talk about the impending storm for the Greater Toronto Area and beyond coming today and they thought they might wait to leave to come home until Tuesday. But more storm is coming their way then. I suggested we keep in contact by phone and email Monday and Tuesday because of this weather.

I hope they are all right.

Meantime, back on the home front, I’ve gone into emergency disaster mode – everything from batteries to non electric radios (I have an old Walkman, although it’s difficult to see what station you are on and the old ghetto blaster can be used with six C batteries – if you get them all in correctly). Have a land line with cords (can’t use the wireless landline extension during power outages) so hopefully the phone service doesn’t go. Don’t want power to go either. But have flashlights (and extra batteries), candles (but I’m leery about using them much for safety’s sake). Have done most of the emergency profile/info from the Ontario government page – to help me do what I need to do – as much of it as I can.

It is all a big worry.

Not safe anywhere in the world – England has floods in York area, southern and midwestern USA – tornadoes, twisters, rain, snow, floods.

Yuck.

Anyway, let’s hope 2016 is much better in all ways for everyone.

Cheers.

Sharon

Only Child Writes

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Only Child scowls through life

Only Child wearing her gentler scowl.

Only Child wearing her gentler scowl.

The old Charlie Chaplin song Smile tells us to smile through all our grief (Smile, music: Charlie Chaplin, Lyrics: John Turner and Geoffrey Parsons) but I’m not buying it for me. A study at Wayne  State University (published in Psychological Science says those who smile can live up to 79 years – the wider the smile the longer the life.

Those of us who are glum can expect to live to 73 years, according to the same study.

Do you know where this study’s researchers got their information? By looking at photos of  230 Major League baseball player on 1952 baseball cards,  seeing if they scowl or grin (and how wide the grin) and then checking records to see at what age they died.

I thought these studies were supposed to use the actual people – not pictures and records of them. Maybe the baseball players smiled purposely for the photo. (That was considered in the study, but obviously not held to much importance). Maybe the players were having a good or bad day and smiled or scowled accordingly.

This isn’t enough research for me to change my scowls to smiles. I do occasionally smile but my main facial expression, the last year at least, is a big fat scowl. And it’s not all squinting at the sun or trying to read the print on my computer when my eyes are bummed out for the day. I scowl because of all the misery I have in my life – all the stuff I referred to in my last post (and earlier posts) as coming at me from outside, or as I put it “dealing with others’ shit coming at me”).

As for attitude and perception – I’ve tried the positive route. The beginning of this year I had high hopes 2014 would be much better. Except for some financial improvement, it’s not turning out that way. And the “financial improvement” may all literally go out the window  to replace a few new windows so the rain can’t come in and yet another major excavation outside to waterproof the basement wall because of the contractor Nigel Applewaite’s screw-up in 2011. I’m now booking contractors and window companies for estimates, but deep down I don’t think my finances will cover it all – even with some help from my ex-husband. I’m already carrying debt and am trying to pay it down.

Tomorrow the weather is supposed to be frightful – a mix of rain, ice pellets, snow and high winds – from the east and southeast – right where it can get into my basement when we have this concoction. To top it off I have a sore swollen gland – the tale end and/or a branch of the sinusitis I thought went away a couple of weeks ago.

And don’t tell me if I had smiled 24/7 I wouldn’t have this viral infection.

Back to the study. Look at the life ages predicted. Seventy-nine (for the big grinners) and 72.9 (actual) for us scowlers. Not much difference. But more to the point for me. Even at my age, 72.9 is far far away when you have to put up with all the crap coming at you on a daily basis.

It’s not as if I don’t do anything about it. I don’t bury my head in the sand (if Icould  find it under the snow and ice). I tackle my problems and try to resolve them and get rid of them for good.

But like a bad penny they won’t go away.

Oh, correction, the penny has gone away – from the Canadian monetary system at least. Maybe PM Stephen Harper had the right idea here.

Unfortunate that all the other bad pennies in life won’t stay away.

See story on this baseball players smile study at http://healthland.time.com/2010/03/25/grinning

and

 How smile intensity may offer clues about longevity | TIME.com http://healthland.time.com/2010/03/25/grinning-for-a-longer-life/#ixzz2wKIX3j5m

More stories can be found by Googling “smiling and longevity study”

Cheers. (or should that be “Scowls”)

Sharon A. Crawford

Only Child Writes

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